If you think that motherhood is not a job, let me try to convince you that it is. First off, where would we be without mothers? Who cooks most of the time? Who nurtures and loves you? I can't imagine life without mothers, and actually, there wouldn't be any life without mothers. If you still don't believe me then I challenge you to notice all the things mothers do for a whole week. What we see is only the tip of the iceberg.
Motherhood isn't a burden; it's a gift. We may not always think so, but it is. In fact, it's one of the greatest jobs there is. And being a mom is just as much a job as a police officer and it's just as important as the President of the United States, if not more. Mothers play a fundamental role in our time. I mean, this is an age where we can be easily confused and disoriented due to all the hectic views and choices all over the place that we have to make. mothers and Fathers have to work together to keep their families safe.
D. Todd Christofferson, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles for the LDS church expounds his view on motherhood in his talk, The Moral Force of Women.
"From
age immemorial, societies have relied on the moral force of women.
While certainly not the only positive influence at work in society, the
moral foundation provided by women has proved uniquely beneficial to the
common good. Perhaps, because it is pervasive, this contribution of
women is often underappreciated. I wish to express gratitude
for the influence of good women, identify some of the philosophies and
trends that threaten women’s strength and standing, and voice a plea to
women to cultivate the innate moral power within them.
Women
bring with them into the world a certain virtue, a divine gift that
makes them adept at instilling such qualities as faith, courage,
empathy, and refinement in relationships and in cultures.
...A
woman’s moral influence is nowhere more powerfully felt or more
beneficially employed than in the home. There is no better setting for
rearing the rising generation than the traditional family, where a
father and a mother work in harmony to provide for, teach, and nurture
their children. Where this ideal does not exist, people strive to
duplicate its benefits as best they can in their particular
circumstances.
In
all events, a mother can exert an influence unequaled by any other
person in any other relationship. By the power of her example and
teaching, her sons learn to respect womanhood and to incorporate
discipline and high moral standards in their own lives. Her daughters
learn to cultivate their own virtue and to stand up for what is right,
again and again, however unpopular. A mother’s love and high
expectations lead her children to act responsibly without excuses, to be
serious about education and personal development, and to make ongoing
contributions to the well-being of all around them. Elder Neal A.
Maxwell once asked: “When the real history of mankind is fully
disclosed, will it feature the echoes of gunfire or the shaping sound of
lullabies? The great armistices made by military men or the peacemaking
of women in homes and in neighborhoods? Will what happened in cradles
and kitchens prove to be more controlling than what happened in
congresses?”" 1
This is only a part of what Elder Christofferson has said.
In this day the role of mothers has been beaten and kicked aside. In television shows and movies we see women as tough, mean and unfeeling. While women should be steadfast and courageous, being heartless and rude is not the mother's role. As Margret D. Nadauld has said, "The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender.
There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There
are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have
enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have
enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more
virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity."2 This is so true.
A mother's job is to care and nurture her children while her husband works and supports the family. In some homes this isn't the case; sometimes the mother needs to work in order to help her family. That's fine, but remember: the time with her loved ones is crucial.
So, what do you think about motherhood now? I don't know if I've changed your perspective for the good or not, but either way, please notice what mothers do for a week. You will be amazed.
1 The Moral Force of Women, D. Todd Christofferson
2 The Joy of Womanhood, Margaret D. Nadauld
1 The Moral Force of Women, D. Todd Christofferson
2 The Joy of Womanhood, Margaret D. Nadauld
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