If you could tell one thing to the entire world, what would you say? Would you give encouragement, advice, tell everyone to toughen up?
Think about it for a moment. Everyone wants to change the world but the big question is how? How are you going to do that? Well, if what you could tell the world would change it, what would you say?
It's hard to think of only one thing. I mean, look around and there are so many we wish we could tell everyone. You know?
But if you could make it one thing, what would you say?
I'll give you a moment to think it over.
I was asked a similar question at a job interview, the question was "what do you think is the number one problem that teens are facing?" or something along those lines. So, I thought for a few seconds because the first things I thought of were drugs, cigarettes, things like that. Then I realized that we know that those things are bad but we do them anyway. Why?
Anyhow, my answer was "I think the biggest problem today for teens are conflicting ideas that go against what we know to be true." I don't know how to put that in simpler words but I do know how to explain it. Drugs, smoking, it's not healthy. Both of those things can tear families apart, in fact on cigarette boxes it say that it can cause cancer. And we're always being told about drinking and driving and stuff.
So, why do we do it then? Why do we smoke when it clearly says that cigarettes can and will harm our bodies? Why do we drink when we know that drinking can rip apart our families and our lives? Why?
I think it's because there's so many rumors that are constantly going around that tell us that the things we know to be wrong are good and fun and won't harm you at all. We know it's wrong but when everyone else is giving into those rumors we can be pulled in because we want to fit in and it's the "cool" and "in" thing.
But let me tell you, those addictions, they are not, in any way, worth it. Don't think that you won't be pulled in; that's what a lot of people thought. Popularity, peer pressure; don't let those things push you into things you know are not right. It's not worth it. I promise. The addiction is not worth it. Once you give in, you become a slave.
So, I know that there are people who've tried it once and don't do it again but that percent of people against the percent of people who keep doing it...well, I don't have actual numbers but I think I'm safe in saying that the scale is heavier on the side of those who keep doing it.
I know that addictions are powerful, they drag you in and trap you there. Escaping is hard.
Be careful of the choices you make.
Thursday, October 8, 2015
Saturday, October 3, 2015
Open Your Eyes
"We
are apt to shut our eyes against a painful truth, and listen to the song of
that siren till she transforms us into beasts. Is it this the part of wise men,
engage in a great and arduous struggle for liberty? Are we disposed to be of
the number of those who, having eyes, see not and, having ears, hear not?"
This is part of Patrick Henry's famous "give me liberty or give me
death" speech at the Virginia House of Burgesses in 1775. Henry is one of
the best examples of a patriot. He may have grown up like a regular boy in the
1700s but he ended up as one of the most important men in the American
Revolution. But how did he go from normal boy running around in the hills and
woods of Virginia, to one of the greatest men in history?
Henry
grew up in Virginia and he and his siblings took advantage of the land all
around them. We might say, "I'm going over to Susan's house," in the
same tone as Henry might have said, "I'm going up the mountain."
Fishing, hunting, swimming and exploring made up a large part of Henry's
childhood. He played a couple different instruments including the violin and
harpsichord. His father and uncle were Henry's main teachers though Henry did
attend a local school in his early age.
Henry
and his brother, William, tried to open a store together but the business
failed due to the brothers generosity. Henry tried again at the mercantile
trade but it didn't last long. After marrying, Henry took a shot at tobacco
farming but after a famine that idea fell through. At this point he turned to law;
he taught himself the guidelines, rules and points of law, and went forth to
become a lawyer. He amazed the bar examiners and soon joined a law firm. It
wasn't that much longer until Henry was widely recognized as a powerful speaker
and lawyer. With his strong voice and passions, it's no surprise that Henry was
one of the principle leaders in the revolution.
Patrick
Henry was all about taking action. He taught it and he lived it. So, how can we
do that too? The Declaration of Independence, written one year after Henry's
liberty speech, says "that Mankind are more disposed to suffer…than to
right themselves by abolishing the Forms to which they are accustomed."
It's easier to stay silent when someone asks for a volunteer for prayer; it's
way easier to let someone else open
the door for that elderly couple. Patrick Henry was surrounded by people who
were too hesitant to act. Henry's friends said things but, as the saying goes,
"it's easier said than done." Open your eyes! Do you really notice everything around you? The
answer is that you probably don't. Our brains don't recognize all the crazy,
wonderful and troubling things that happen all the time. We only focus on
what's most important; which might end up being what we think is most important, not what actually is important. The problem is that we live in a world like Henry's.
There's just not enough people who stand up and stand out. Our nation is
binding itself in troubles and snares. The chains are thick; the keys to the
locks are missing. Do we notice the hole America is in? Drugs, shootings,
live-in boy and girlfriends. That's only some of the problems. We've got to
stand up to these things. And to do that we've got to open our eyes and pay
attention. Many of Patrick Henry's friends noticed that he did a lot of observation.
By listening and watching, Henry learned a lot about human nature. That's why
he was such a great orator, he knew how to captivate and draw people's
attention. He saw what was happening and he took action.
Henry
lived in a world that is so different but yet so alike to our own. Henry didn't
have to worry about bullies in the same way that we do now but he stood up for
the right and we can too. But to do so, our eyes must be open, our ears
listening intently. Henry lived over three hundred years ago but his example
still shines brightly in a dimming world. Put down the phone, get away from the
computer, turn off the TV; the world needs to see your light. As Henry asked, "Why
stand we here idle?"
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This is an essay I wrote for an online class I'm taking this semester.
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